Get the spark back


Reigniting intimacy in long term relationships, and empowering individuals to love themselves

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Who I help

Offering relationship and psychosexual therapy to couples and individuals 

Couples in Long Term Relationships

Many long term relationships feel more like colleagues: functioning well enough but lacking emotional and physical intimacy.

It doesn’t have to be this way.

Get the spark back.

Individuals in Relationship & Personal Distress

Relationship problems, divorce or loss can have a significant impact on personal wellbeing and self esteem, leaving you feeling lost and vulnerable.

It doesn’t have to be this way.

Get the spark back.


When sex and relationship problems become part of your everyday, then it’s time to seek help.

Hello, my name is Elinor Harvey and I am a qualified Relationship and Psychosexual Therapist, offering therapy and coaching for relationship, personal and sexual difficulties.

If you’ve lost the spark with your partner, or if you’re feeling lost in your relationship with yourself, let me help.  

Working with me can allow you to rediscover joy, connection and intimacy in your relationships, as well and unlocking a kinder and healthier attitude towards yourself.

So if you’re looking to improve your communication and connection with yourself and others, you’re in the right place.

Let me help you.

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Elinor is absolutely brilliant. She is friendly, approachable, and patient. Elinor put me at ease right from the start. I have been impressed with her ability to build rapport and create a safe and non-judgmental space for discussion, even over Zoom. I have felt so comfortable talking to her. Elinor’s insight and wise words have been invaluable. Put shortly, I cannot thank her enough or recommend her more highly

Client Feedback, 2023


Relationship and Psychosexual Therapy for couples and individuals

If you’re struggling with any aspect of your relationship, therapy with me allows you to take a deep dive into your relationship difficulties, make sense of the issues that you’re facing and work out where changes can be made.

Meeting remotely via Zoom on a weekly or fornightly basis, you can feel assured you’re getting expert guidance and support to meet your relationship goals.



Get the Spark Back: a coaching programme for women with a low sex drive

Do you love your partner but have stopped wanting to have sex?

Are you worried that  your sex drive is broken and that there something wrong with you?

Are you anxious about the impact this is having on your relationship?

Do you miss the days when sex felt so easy and fun, and don’t know how to get back there?

Perhaps just thinking about sex makes you feel anxious and pressurised, even if your partner isn’t putting you under pressure?

If the answer is YES, then my ‘Get the Spark Back’, my new Group Coaching Programme could be for you.

Using a blend of 1:1 sessions, teaching videos, selected exercises and Q&A group sessions, I will help you overcome your difficulties to get the fun back into your sex life and your relationship back on track again.

Find out more here


Interested in getting the spark back?

If this is what you’re looking for, contact me today and let’s see if its suitable for you


Mental Health and Wellbeing Support for your employees and top executives

It’s never been more important to support the mental health and wellbeing of your employees.


I offer 1:1 employee counselling sessions, executive relationship coaching and small group wellbeing and mental health sessions. Either over Zoom or in your workplace, let me help you prioritise your employee and business leaders’ mental wellbeing so they can show up at the top of their game for you. 

Find out more here


Interested in supporting your workforce?

If you’d like to find out more, contact me today and let’s see how I can help.

Watch Elinor Harvey interviewed for the Peachy with Zoe podcast

“Elinor has helped me completely transform how I see myself and my relationships with others. She helped me to understand where feelings and behaviours were coming from and how to process them and accept them positively. She’s helped me to re-evaluate the importance of all my relationships (family, friendships etc) to give better balance in my life and my emotions. I barely recognise who I was before!”

 Client Feedback, 2022

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Start changing your relationship today.

I know it can feel anxiety provoking and overwhelming when thinking about how to improve your relationship.

Let me help.

I work with many amazing clients who can ace it at work but who struggle to know what they can do to change relationship and intimacy difficulties.

Talking to their friends and family about their relationship problems can feel impossible and shrouded with taboo and shame.

I tell them the same thing as I’m going to tell you. I’m not going to judge you. You’re not alone. Let’s get started and we work out what to do. I can help you.