Your go to therapist for relationship transformation

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When relationship problems become part of your everyday, then it’s time to seek help.

Hello, my name is Elinor Harvey and I am a qualified Relationship and Psychosexual Therapist, offering weekly therapy and coaching programmes for relationship, personal and psychosexual difficulties. This used to be known as marriage counselling but in fact I work with individuals and non married couples too.

I am based in North Hampshire, between Basingstoke and Andover, but work across the UK via online sessions.

More specifically, I am someone who sparks and supports change in people’s lives and relationships.

Why work with me?

I’m not just a coach, but a qualified Relationship and Psychosexual Therapist.

I’ve been helping professional men and women just like you overcome relationship pain to rediscover joy, love and intimacy for over 15 years.

I understand it’s frustrating when life is demanding and you can’t prioritise your relationship.

I know it’s lonely and can feel hopeless when your life isn’t turning out how you expected it to be.

When you see other people’s relationships progressing smoothly.

When you just can’t seem to make any long term change.

I can help.

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Elinor is absolutely brilliant. She is friendly, approachable, and patient. Elinor put me at ease right from the start. I have been impressed with her ability to build rapport and create a safe and non-judgmental space for discussion, even over Zoom. I have felt so comfortable talking to her. Elinor’s insight and wise words have been invaluable. Put shortly, I cannot thank her enough or recommend her more highly

Client Feedback, 2023


Relationship and Psychosexual Therapy for couples and individuals

At the heart of my practice is a commitment to offering ongoing relationship counselling and psychosexual therapy for couples & individuals. Through weekly sessions, we can work together to take a deep dive into your relationship difficulties, family background, relationship history and make sense of the issues that you’re facing.

All my sessions are offered remotely via Zoom, so no matter where you are based, you can meet with a highly qualified and experienced Relationship Therapist, rather than being limited to those local to you.



Tailored coaching programmes to bring about lasting results, quickly.

If you can’t commit to longer term therapy, I offer a range of programmes, lasting 6-8 sessions, and tailored specifically to your unique needs. Each package uses evidence based therapeutic, psychological and coaching techniques to help you bring about lasting change within a short period of time. All coaching programmes are delivered online. 


For couples wanting to get their spark back.

For individuals to recover from past relationships and move forward to a healthier and happier future.

Psychosexual therapeutic coaching to help you get your sex life back on track.

“Elinor has helped me completely transform how I see myself and my relationships with others. She helped me to understand where feelings and behaviours were coming from and how to process them and accept them positively. She’s helped me to re-evaluate the importance of all my relationships (family, friendships etc) to give better balance in my life and my emotions. I barely recognise who I was before!”

Individual Client Feedback, 2022

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Start changing your life today.

I know it’s not easy to take a step towards something new. To commit to real, lasting change.

Let me help.

I work with many highly capable individuals who can ace it at work, in a board room,  making a high stakes deal. But who struggle to know what they can do to change their personal lives.

I tell them the same thing as I’m going to tell you. Let’s get started. We can work it out together.