Relationship Therapy

Starting Relationship Therapy can feel daunting.

How do you know if you need couple therapy? 

Can my relationship can be saved? 

Can marriage counselling improve your sex life?

I’m here to help answer your concerns.

Relationship Therapy and Marriage Counselling is an opportunity to explore some of these difficulties.

It is normal to have ups and downs in any relationship, but sometimes these issues feel too big to tackle without professional support. Counselling with me provides a platform for difficult topics to be discussed and for pain and hurt to be explored and listened to. I place emphasis on couples continuing to talk and explore their feelings between sessions. This means you become empowered to make essential, long lasting changes to your relationship.

I work with couples & individuals for a range of relationship and psychosexual issues. Clients from all backgrounds and sexualities are welcomed.

I am based in Hampshire but offer online couple counselling, relationship therapy and coaching throughout the UK.

 Find out more Elinor Harvey here









What issues do I work with?

  • Couples who have lost the spark and want to reconnect
  • Improving emotional and physical intimacy
  • Infidelity and the impact of affairs
  • Recovering from relationship breakdown
  • Communication difficulties and arguments
  • Maintaining a healthy relationship after kids
  • Deciding whether to separate
  • Fertility issues, miscarriage & infant loss
  • Sexual and physical intimacy difficulties
  • Overcoming sexual trauma
  • Gender, Sexuality and Relationship Diversity issues
  • Worries about dating or committment
  • The impact of mental ill health or financial difficulties


                            Real relationship change

                            Some reviews from happy couples


                            Mr and Mrs O

                            2022 Clients

                            We found the sessions really beneficial and it has helped us navigate our differences in a much more constructive way. Thanks for all the help! If anyone we knew asked about couples therapy, we would recommend Elinor without hesitation.


                            Mr J

                            2022 Clients

                            I found the sessions invaluable, such a weight lifted each week and really appreciated the insights and different ways of thinking through issues.”

                            WHY WORK WITH ME?

                            I know there are alot of therapists and coaches out there. Here’s what sets me apart.

                            Proven Qualifications

                            I am a qualified Relationship and Psychosexual Therapist, the result of over 9 years of study.

                            15+ years of experience

                            I’ve been working in therapy and mental health my whole career. I understand people.

                            I believe in you

                            I’m passionate about our ability to adapt and thrive, no matter what life throws at us.

                            A pragmatic, human approach

                            I’m warm and an excellent listener. But I’m not going to sit there silently. I’m here to empower and help you reach your goals.

                            Excellent Client Satisfaction

                            97% of my clients felt our work helped them with their difficulties.

                            Processing the past

                            My therapy training means I can support you with your past difficulties or trauma as well as helping you reach your future goals.